Month: January 2020

So I had an accident while playing catch with Adeena and fractured my 4th Metatarsal Bone on the right foot. It was so painful that I cried, went to the clinic the doctor gave me a referral letter to go to the hospital so we went the same night but since the ER was full we decided to go back home and come the next day which was Tuesday.

When Tuesday came, Adi was so caught up with work that i felt like I’m not as important as his work, well ye lah i know he is chasing his career to move forward as Rizal assured him only if he disciplined himself to a better version of him which i agree on la but hellooo Im in pain and need to get my cast on..

So I guess he felt pretty bad that he brought me on Wednesday to the ER to get admitted, and the episodes at the hospital be like wtf is wrong with me man.. with blood cair lah, low BP lah. adoiiiii..

The Ortho Doc, Doctor Gandhi is super nice and awesome. Easiest doctor to deal with, no strict instructions siap encourage to walk lagi. Doctor lain that I know kept asking me to sit still. ehh helloo my doctor surgeon lagi k siap ckp dont be so dramatic nak lembik, must be strong and get up and walk.

And so to sum it up I will be a cyborg with my aircast boots for the next 6-8weeks.. no driving but more walking.. haihhhhh… well done tyana, please learn your lesson not to run around the house with socks on.. pfftt.. brilliant idea right lari with socks on. ko bodoh ke apa pompuan. hahahhaa.. wait bodoh la tu dah jatuh baru teringat pakai socks. hahaha.. kbye.. oh wait, TODAY I GET TO BE DISCHARGED FROM THE HOSPITAL! YAY!! I MISS MY KIDS.. k now BYE for real. hahahahah

Have you ever felt so down that all you wanna do is to lay in bed all day without doing a thing but you have kids so you dragged your feet just to get up? Well, I had to go through that the past weekend..

Being broke to zero things at home. Client hasn’t paid the 2 pending invoices in which I chased today even when I know its a Sunday cause well durh, in bad need of money right? lols.

One by one things in the house finishing and we have none to provide to get us till pay day.. now literally all we have rice & eggs. lain habis dah and its only the 12th..2 weeks more to go until pay day.. haihh.. nangis teruk k.

This crucial times, I couldn’t bring myself to even ask for anyone’s help anymore cause they have helped me before and I cant burden all of them again for our own problems as they have their own problem..

So today something happen which triggers if we raised the kids the right way or the wrong way? Am I a bad mother? haih.. I don’t know.. We got angry at abang fir misbehaving, then he scratched his own face sebab marah sangat and upset with himself. He is showing signs of anxiety and depression like I use to have when I was a kid.

I tried asking him, he said he thinks that we don’t love him and that the memory of his father hitting me makes him upset and angry at himself which makes me sad that he remembers all that as it did not just happen once.

Should I bring him to see a psychiatrist? haihh… yeah I think I should.. and I think we should slow down on keep getting angry and yelling at him..

15 years ago, a person whom I saw as my brother did something unspeakable of in which I myself couldn’t bring myself to talk about it to anyone until a few years back where I started to open up to my cousin sister and then later to Maya. I was so traumatised till I kept locking myself up in the room being all depressed and disgusted with my own body. It took me quite awhile to hide that memory right at the back of my head to be blocked by other memories.

Last  Saturday, Kak Sue called me up to tell me that this person has been talking about what he did to me to others that I don’t even know. Since then, I just knew I had to open up to Adi as well. So I told him right there and then, well of course I broke down being all angry and sad and being haunted by the flashbacks. My brain just couldn’t function. I had restless and sleepless nights until now to be honest.

My whole weekend was ruined by the news. I only had 2-3hrs of sleep per night since Saturday. Mentally tired and its driving me insane. Just to know it like that if giving me a headache until I got so angry that I start throwing things across the room, crying, staring into blank space, screaming etc.

After that episode, this afternoon Faiz (mac’s friend) who grew up alongside all of us told me that Mik ran away, stealing RM2000 cash and his limited edition Hublot watch with the certificate that his father gave as a wedding present. All caught on his surveillance camera that is installed in his house. I got angrier after knowing that news. I mean how could he do such a thing. Faiz gave him a place to stay for a week when he was over in JB and right after we scolded him  about talking trash about me and others, this is what he does. haihhhhh…

Of all the topics to talk about we ended up talking about the two idiots in my life which I have considered dead.

The rage I have if them in my life is unimagineable. I feel angry! I feel hurt! I feel upset! Why??? Why should I feel so??

Its tiring. I’m mentally drained. I feel like screaming my lungs out cause I just can’t bare the pain I feel towards them. I hate them! I despise them for their own actions and poison. I do!! Why should I value them? They have caused me and mama a lot of trouble and ever since mama died its like the burden is on me. I mean why should i carry the burden right? I have 3 kids to think of and abang just entered Standard 1 so yeah I should be more focused on him more instead of these idiots.

Hence why I removed them from my life. Should I be the one letting them in again no! this time is a NO! I go above and beyond to try be there for them just the way Mama did so that they don’t feel the empty space as much but nope I cant controlled what happens in their life. They are two growned ass men. Its their life, their decision.. so WHATEVS! Just thinking about them gives me a headache!

Haihh..